Why is this so hard

I thought that for our cake topper we would be all modern-and-stuff with our cake topper and get one of those cool monogrammed ones with an M (for my future last name incaseyoudidntknow!). When I presented this idea to my Mister, he said he thought we would have a traditional one with a bride and a groom, that is unless I really wanted a monogrammed cake topper. I, being the nice future-wifey that I am (ha! no I really want him to have a say in things too...it is OUR day) agreed to do the traditional cake topper.

I honesty don't mind at all, I'm glad that we are doing that. Now I am on the search for the perfect bride & groom cake topper and you know what...they all stink! It's like they are all from the 70s or 80s! Are there no 'modernized' traditional wedding cake toppers?! And if there are...can you tell me where they are?!

The thing is we don't really have a 'theme' so to say. My girls dresses are black and the flowers are red. Our favors are heart shaped cookie cutter deals. So I suppose a heart would be our theme? The pic above is cute in an old and gaudy way I guess?! I like simple things and feel like all of these are all too done up.

Be on the look out! Let me know if you see something cute! I have blonde hair and the Mister has blonde-ish/brown hair!